Preparing for College

by Hal | March 11th, 2013

Academic Bldg - 400x200When we were thinking about high school and preparing for college with our first, we were worried about academics, but now that we’re graduating our third, we’ve realized there are other things, sometimes even more important, that you need to pay attention to along the way.

Teach your young adults to be responsibly independent. It’s easy for homeschooling parents, who’ve been on the job 24/7, to miss this one. We need to allow our children to make decisions and even to fail while we are still there to give advice and help them along.

Teach them to work independently. As your children progress to and through high school, you need to allow them to do more of the planning and be responsible for their own day to day work. This is something our sons reported a lot of college students weren’t able to do well, and their friends’ grades suffered because of it.

Help them to figure out their talents and interests. Many students go into majors that they have little aptitude for or little real understanding of what is involved in those fields. Career testing helps, as does shadowing others at work.

Teach them to manage money. Long before they leave home, they need to have a checking account and some form of plastic (a debit card, perhaps) and understand how each works. An awful lot of college students make financial mistakes that affect their future.

Prepare them to stand alone for Christ. Encourage them to study the Bible themselves and pray daily. Teach them to defend their faith. Make sure they are well-instructed in the areas likely to be challenged–creation, the dependability of Scripture, the uniqueness of Christ as the one way to reconciliation with God. Teach them of the importance of being in a church body and seeking the fellowship of other Christians. Help them to find a church and campus Christian group.

Homeschool graduates can and do succeed and can even thrive in college, but we need to understand that often they face even greater social and philosophical pressure than we did and we need to prepare them for it and support them in it. Let’s pay as much attention to releasing those arrows as we did to shaping them!


Need some practical help in these areas? See our page of resources On Teens! We have practical resources to help you in academics, character, career testing, and college admissions.

This article originally appeared in The Homeschool Minute, 2/27/13

One Response to “Preparing for College”

  1. as I homeschool graduate and now currently homeschooling my 10, 7 and 4 year old, I can definitely attest to the above! I’ve always focused on the basics and not the content (especially of history and science). I think one of the KEY things that is missing that kids don’t know how to schedule their time. They procrastinate. I was fortunate to have a counselor in the public school teach me how to do that (before I was homeschooled). As the oldest, my mom relied on me to get dinner and such ready when she was out taking kids to other activities. One of my other siblings wasn’t as fortunate, and didn’t have the cooking skills until later. And of course, a strong faith should be set way before they even reach the teen years, but needs to be reinforced throughout. PLEASE make sure you cover these with your kids. I know I will!

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