Boys! Don’t Settle for Stupid!

The problem of books and boys has been in the news lately.  It’s a known fact that boys generally read less than girls and seem to enjoy it less when they do read.  Teachers and librarians have worried about it for years, and some of their suggestions border on desperation.  Should we embrace comic books and potty humor to entice our boys to read?  Some schools and libraries already have.  Here are your tax dollars at work …

A sampling of online catalogs in larger North Carolina cities uncovers hundreds of titles, everything from books about cartooning to Asian teen romance comics and educational titles like The Manga Guide to Calculus. Enter the term “manga” at the website for the Public Library of Charlotte and Mecklenburg County, and over 600 entries come up in this one category of comics.

“A solid quarter to third of what I circulate is graphic novels,” said Meg Harrison, the teen services coordinator for the Forsyth County Library [Winston-Salem, NC]. “Most of my readers are boys. If it’s in manga or comic book format, they don’t care if it’s targeted for girls — they’ll read it.”

(Carolina Journal, 8/31/10)

So if you start them with Japanese romance comics and Captain Underpants, somehow they get a taste for Shakespeare later on?  I have to think content matters.  I’ve read my share of superhero stories and other fluffy stuff, but not as a school assignment, and not as the preferred, promoted format.

We don’t think boys should settle for stupid stuff, even when they’re young.  Thomas Spence had an excellent op-ed in the Wall Street Journal recently:

Education was once understood as training for freedom. Not merely the transmission of information, education entailed the formation of manners and taste. Aristotle thought we should be raised “so as both to delight in and to be pained by the things that we ought; this is the right education.” …

This kind of training goes against the grain, and who has time for that? How much easier to meet children where they are.

One obvious problem with the [pandering] philosophy of education is that it is more suited to producing a generation of barbarians and morons than to raising the sort of men who make good husbands, fathers and professionals. If you keep meeting a boy where he is, he doesn’t go very far.

And the content issue extends beyond avoidance of the disgusting – we ought to be realistic about the interests of boys, outside the gross-out variety.  Even while promoting the use of comics, the Canadian Council on Learning got this much right:

“Boys are much more likely [than girls] to enjoy reading science and nonfiction books, informational texts, and ‘how-to’ manuals,” the authors wrote. “They are also more likely to enjoy fantasy [and] adventure stories … [yet] these genres and media are generally underrepresented or even unavailable in school libraries, a reflection of the views of teachers and librarians who judge such material inappropriate.” 

So what do we do?  Here are some ideas we found helpful with our boys …

Set the Example:  Do your children ever see you reading a book for pleasure? No, really – a book, not the newspaper, not online.  I used to do my Bible reading on Bible Gateway or The Blue Letter Bible, — both useful websites, by the way — and carried my PDA to church (Multiple translations in my shirt pocket — cool, huh?)  But then I realized my children couldn’t tell at a glace whether I was deep in the Scriptures, or deep in my email and to-do lists.  I went back to the big, solid study Bible as a testimony to my kids.  Let them see you pick up a book for fun, too.

Read to Them.  We know we’re supposed to read to the little ones — try reading aloud as a family sometime.  We’ve gotten tremendous enjoyment out of sharing classics like The Chronicles of NarniaLittle House on the Prairie, and The Swiss Family Robinson (we wore out a copy!)  Even the teenagers will hang on for the next chapter.  Great fun, and it keeps us off the Internet in the evenings.

Introduce Them to Worthwhile Stuff, Early.  Certainly there are the classic children’s books like the ones above.  There are some great biographies and histories written on a grade-school level, too.  The Childhoods of Famous Americans series is good, and even now I enjoy the Landmarks series of nonfiction titles – they’re better than Wikipedia for a quick overview of a subject! That’s just scratching the surface.  Sarah Clarkson has a new guidebook, Read for the Heart: Whole Books for Wholehearted Families (you can get it from Apologia), with lots of summaries and commentary to suggest what to look for.

Our own list of favorites includes, in no particular order,

Norton Juster, The Phantom Tollbooth
Ralph Moody, Little Britches (the series)
J.R.R. Tolkein, The Lord of the Rings and The Hobbit
Rudyard Kipling, Captains Courageous
Grace Livingston Hill, The Witness
John Bunyan, Pilgrim’s Progress
C. S. Lewis, Mere Christianity and the Space Trilogy
Josh McDowell, More Than A Carpenter
R. M. Ballentyne, The Coral Island and The Gorilla Hunters
Everything by G.A. Henty! 

(By the way, Vision Forum has Henty on sale this week — see their website here!)

Those are some ideas.  What have your boys found fascinating?

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